Sue.. You bring up excellent points... So here is what I find to be the most helpful when making changes..Ask yourself what SPECIFICALLY do you want different...is it a difference in your personal, professional or the way in which you handle/live in the world....Next step write your dream scene..If you woke up in the am and your life what set up to be anyway you want what would you do all day....In my practice, I have created a mapping process that assists people in figuring out what they want different and then the next steps to create that change...Hopefully, this helps..Have a wonderful day! Starting dreaming today!